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Hey everyone. First, I'd like to apoligize in advanced if this is long. But this is something that has been bothering me for a while. So this year, I've noticed a change in me. I can't exactly pin point it. I seem to have a lot more confidence, my styles switches slightly, and I'm making lots of new friends. All of these sound good right? Well according to a 'friend' of mine, I appear to think I'm better then everyone else which isn't the case AT ALL. I don't like conceited people and I know I have nothing to feel superior about. The problem is, my idea of right and wrong has kind of switched and all though I'm still a good kid (I don't smoke or do drugs, or steal) things that used to make me feel guilty, don't bother me anymore. I don't have as much of a problem lying to my parents (we don't seem to get along that well anymore) and I hang around some kids that do bad things, even though I don't. I've noticed that one of my friends and I have grown a lot closer, but me and some of my old friends have started drifting apart. I don't really know who I am anymore and that scares me because I like to be in total control of things. I don't really have a specific question, I'd just like some assurance from people who have experienced things like this, and maybe some advice to help me stay grounded, and figure out who I am. Thanks to anyone who took the time to read/answer this! ♥
really, you're a typical teenager. You're growing up.
I'm fifteen, so obviously not that much older then you, but the same type of switch happened with me, and I got that reaction from a few of my friends too. You actually do sound a lot like me.
Really, if you are happier this way, then just enjoy it. You are only young once, as cliche as that is.
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