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I really like my bgf possibly even love him and i know he loves me. He just told me. I may be going into a serious relationship with him soon. The thing is we have an amazing friendship and bong or w/e but im not physically attracted to him. I really wish i was. Some things i like but i have had other bf's that i thought were just SO hott but hes not like that. Hes attracted to me and i turn him on and sumtimes when he says sweet things to me im turned on but not really when im with him in person or he does sumthing. im not meaning like to have sex or anything cause we def. arent planning for that! but i would just like it if i was attracted to him. its kinda saddening that im not haha. any advice? thanx!
and is 14 to young to have a serious relationship with a boy whos 15 1/2 cause we are amazingly close and have been best friends for a year+ i think it's fine if you really care about the person but i want to know what all u guys think :)
thanks and i will rate helpful advice! ;) (link)
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Maybe you love him more as a friend than to have an actual relationship with him.
I can only speak from my experience, but when you love someone enough to be in a romantic relationship with, they start to become more attractive over time, the more you fall in love with them, the more attractive they become.
If you love him like you say you do, over time he will become the most hansome guy you've ever seen. Unless of course you're completely shallow, but I doubt that's the case. =)
As for you being too young, I don't think you are... If anything you'll learn a great deal from this experience... And if you feel you're ready, then go for it.
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