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Ok, well before you read this and go "Another pathetic girl who has a bad love life" listen. I like this boy, say Jim. Well my friend has liked Jim for like 2 years and has asked him out so many times and Jim always says no. She doesnt know that i like Jim.
Also my friend Jen is Jims Best Friend, but she always is like laying on him and like almost giving him a blowjob. I mean, come on, your my best friend, dont be giving the boy i like a blowjob.
Me and jim are such good friends. He like tells me everything. I have liked him one time before, but hes said no, but it was a year ago.
I dont want to tell him i like him and him say he doesnt like me and well be all messed up and lose what we had and have Jen and the girl who likes him mad. What should i do, tell him, or try to get over him??? HELP!

14/f

There always seems to be a BUT now doesn't there. My advice, what have you got to lose? Either you take a chance and tell him, or you try to live your life with the feelings hovering over your head. Personally, from experience, I would tell him and hope for the better. If you guys are as good friends as you make it sound, you should get over this [if he says no].


It seems you have a little competition and sometimes this can be good, and it could also be bad. You explain that your best friend who has been crushing on Jim for 2 years now, and she doesn;t know you like him. She probably doesn't know because you were afraid she'd get mad if she knew; am I right? You also explain that you get frustrated [lack of a better word] when Jen flirts with him. It's all quite similar.


First of all, you need to confess to your best friend that you like the same guy. Basically tell her that you know she may not like this but you are going to tell him because you don't want this chance to pass you by. She may get upset, but try to explain to her that she's tried and 'not succeeded' many times and you feel that it's fair if you tried. As for Jen, just ignore that situation altogether unless it gets out of hand.


All in all, tell her your plan, tell him how you feel, and hope for the best outcome.


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(Rating: 5) Thanks, i will try to tell my best friend and tell jim that i like him!
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