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im 13 years old and a female and my mom treats me like im 30
she wants me to wash the dishes every night and clean the kitchen , and the bathroom , and my room, even my 8 year old brother's room
am like cinderella?
the worst part is that when i do these things she wont even say thank you or tell me that i did a good job, she just acts like's it's nothing.
but wen i do something wrong she yells so much till i just feel like crying.
at the same time of cleaning those and doing all the chores, she also expects me to get straight a's in skool
like she'll freak out if a get an 82 on test and tell me that ill never get anywhere in life if i dont do good in skool.
how do i get her to let me be a kid and just have fun and hang out with my friends and relax
thnxx
Heey. ommygod, I know EXACTLY how you feel, it's REDICULOUS.
What I did was, I explained to my mom how it pisses me off how she treats me. I don't know if this is the case for you, but my mom treats me like i'm 4 when i want to go out, but suddenly i'm like 45 when it comes to me doing things for her. Tell her in a nice way that you're just a kid, and you don't want all that kind of pressure. Explain to her that you want to be treated your age, and that you deffinately don't mind helping her out, but you don't think it's fair that these things are automatically expected of you.
Most importantly, be nice to her or she'll just ignore you and continue to treat you the way she does if you don't show her respect.
Hope I helped, you said you're 13, right? Well, i'm 14 so there must not be too much of a difference in what our parents think we're capable of.
Good Luck, hope I helped.
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thnxx i hope it works
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