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Lately my school has been talking to us about abortion. They think it's wrong and I'm not sure about it. I'm NOT pregnant, but there are girls in my school who are and each of them has said they wish they would have had an abortion. I think it's wrong, but it could also be for the best if one was to have an abortion.
Please voice your opinions on abortion. I would love to hear everything you have to say about it.
I think if it's your body, it's your life, your decision and you should have a right to have one. If you don't like it, then you don't have to get an abortion. Just don't hate on everyone who has one. It's just wrong. Some girls cannot afford to have a child or to be put into that situation because their parents will kick them out. Even if it's RAPE, parents still kick out their kids. You know what you're getting into when you have sex. You may be using two birth controls. And then you may get pregnant. You were being responsible about it but it just happened. It's life and your sexual urges, you can't always keep people pure and away from it. It seems the more you protect, more rebellious the person becomes. Once you start having sex, it's almost hard to stop. I think people have a right to have one if they want or need one for health reasons. Especially if they have a disease that could be passed onto their baby. They shouldn't be looked down upon just because they are young or that it's "wrong". It's not coming from your body. Just because someone is choosing that, it doesn't mean they are stupid. It's because they aren't ready and there was an accident. [Bad as that sounds, just not planned] There's many young girls who are using condoms and the pill, and still that protection is not enough for them to be looked as "responisble"
Becoming a young mother is hard enough, many cannot handle that financially or emotionally, so it's in their best interest to have an abortion. Some women aren't fit enough to have a child. You want your baby to be healthy as much as possible.
You know, if you were actually put into that situation where you thought you may be pregnant. Abortion would come across your mind at least ONCE. so many people speak from not experience but how most people view others. it's sad. you have to be in it, to actually understand it.
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"You have to be in it to actually understand it." I get where you are coming from there. Thank you so much for voicing your opinion.
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