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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

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My boyfriend and I are thinking about having sex. But before I act on this thought, I want to hear some personal experiences. Have you ever had sex? if the answer is no, then why haven't you? Is it because of religion, personal beliefs, morals, etc? But if you have, then What happened? Why did you decide to participate in sex? Do you regret it? I'm asking these questions because I want to know what everyday people think about this, because once its gone i can never get it back.

i don't agree with the person below me. you should have sex when you feel you're ready and mature enough to do it. you should be in love with the person you are going to do it with. there's no set time to do it..you don't have to wait until you're out of high school. i haven't had sex.. but i came pretty close last year when i was a freshman in high school. looking back, i know that sounds slutty but i was really in love with the guy i was going out with and i went out with him for a year. i think that if i had done it i probably would still be together with him today. so no, i probably wouldn't have regretted it. if you really like your boyfriend then do it. but don't feel like you HAVE to or hes pressuring you to. and if he is then tell him if you're not ready.

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(Rating: 4) Thanks for the advice! I decided to wait until marriage.
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