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Q: My boyfriend and I are thinking about having sex. But before I act on this thought, I want to hear some personal experiences. Have you ever had sex? if the answer is no, then why haven't you? Is it because of religion, personal beliefs, morals, etc? But if you have, then What happened? Why did you decide to participate in sex? Do you regret it? I'm asking these questions because I want to know what everyday people think about this, because once its gone i can never get it back.
It's great that you're thinking long and hard about this. I haven't had sex because of religous beliefs and morals. I'm very conservative about sexuality and I almost wrote a paper about perversions in classic literature because I hated the sexual references lol. (As I always say, if I want to read about sex, I can easily pick up the latest Cosmo.)

Also, I've had many a friend call me up to tell me that they're pregnant or that they got a girl pregnant. It's just not a position I would want to be in. And STDs aren't something to play around with either. If you do decide to have sex, use protection, because it helps you big in the long run.

Whatever you decide, just know that this decision will be with you. If you want to lose your virginity to your boyfriend, that's great! And also, talk to him about your reservations and how you're feeling. Sex is a mutual thing, and both parties need to be aware of what the other is feeling.

Hope this helps!

Thank you so much! Its so many people out here thats infected with diseases and feeling pressured into sex. And I dont want to be one of them.

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