I am a Sixteen year old girl who enjoys helping others and sharing my experience and knowledge. I'm here to help anyone and everyone and anyone is welcome to add me on msn or email me. I have been through relationship problems, Family problems (I have recently moved out of home.) I have had many friendship problems and have helped a lot of people through self harm and suicidal thoughts. My career goal is to be either a graphic designer, Visual Art teacher or councellor.
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My boyfriend and I are thinking about having sex. But before I act on this thought, I want to hear some personal experiences. Have you ever had sex? if the answer is no, then why haven't you? Is it because of religion, personal beliefs, morals, etc? But if you have, then What happened? Why did you decide to participate in sex? Do you regret it? I'm asking these questions because I want to know what everyday people think about this, because once its gone i can never get it back. (link)
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First things first, I admire that your thinking carefully about having sex before you make your decision. i have always had a moral that I will be in a relationship with my boyfriend for at least 6 months before having it. The first time I had sex, it eventuated from me mucking around through text before, I really wasn't sure that i wanted it and when he came over he just decided it was gonig to happen and I did it because I though he loved me etc. I do regret that experience, but I've learnt to deal with it. I then got in a relationship with the guy I am with and we've been together for about 20 months now. And he actually asked me if i wanted to have it and waited until i was ready and he feels deeply that sex is about showing your love for one another. Please don't be pressured into it, and please use contraception.
Live in the moment xx
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Thank you so much for the advice. And I hope your relationship continues to go wonderful. But your last quote "Live in the moment" contradicted your advice. Because if i were to live in the moment i would have sex w/o protection. Why? Because it feels better. But since I have to act based on the future, I have to think about the STD's and pregnancy that could result from that.
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