I am a Sixteen year old girl who enjoys helping others and sharing my experience and knowledge. I'm here to help anyone and everyone and anyone is welcome to add me on msn or email me. I have been through relationship problems, Family problems (I have recently moved out of home.) I have had many friendship problems and have helped a lot of people through self harm and suicidal thoughts. My career goal is to be either a graphic designer, Visual Art teacher or councellor.
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15/F
sorry for the length.
please, just read and respond.
Here's the deal. This isn't one of those stories where I ask advice for my friend. It really is him. Alright, well a little while ago I went to my cousins house and I met his neighbor whom I clicked with immedietly. We had this instant atraction that was werid because Iusualy wouldn't go for guys like him. I'm a good girl, because of the choices I make, and he's more of the bad boy who's been through alot. So we liked eachother a little bit, but he lives about an hour away and I have a boyfriend, and he had a girlfriend.The feelings faded how I wanted them too. When we got to know eachother, he told me that he cuts. I got him to stop and he promied me that he'd never do it again, but only because he loves me and that he wants to make sure that I trust him. I got him through alot of stuff and I became his "hero" as he says. A little while after that he told me that he missed his ex and that his life meant nothing to him anymore and I had to convince him to not take his life. I don't say anything inconsiderate and I talk to him about his feelings. I know how to play. He thanked me for the help and everything was fine for awhile. Then, yesturday, he told me that he broke up with the girlfriend that he currently had because they lived far away. I asked him if I could help and he said no, because, "It scares me how much I care about you, and I can't take loving you anymore." I didn't understand what he meant by this and I tried over and over again to ask him but he never gave me the explaination that I wanted. I thought we were over what we had, but maybe he doens't like me anymore. I asked if he still had feelings for me and he said yes, but I just really don't know. I asked him if he broke up with his girlfriend because of me and he said that he didn't know. I'm gonig up to my aunts house on monday and I'm gonig to see him because he is my aunts neighbor. I'm just afraid that things will be different and that I'll make him feel weird. We had somthing, I'll admit. I love the boyfriend that I have right now and I don't want anything to rekindle with my aunts neighbor. I want to be there for him, but I don't wnat to fall for him. I had a big problem with this last time and it almost caused me and my boyfriend to brake up. This kid means alot to me, and he changed me as a person and I see life alot differently. I just recently lost one of my best friends and he helped me get through. Now I want to be there for him. I can't have him take his life or hurt himself. Please...please help me. I sound desperate, but what would you do if you were me.
you could help me, help him save his LIFE.
thankyou and God bless all who resppond.
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First things first from what i've read i think you have some sort of feelings that you aren't admitting to for this guy. Whether we like it or not there s no way of stopping who were attracted to. I've been through having friends cut themselves and wanting to commit suicide and i know that it causes a lot of stress for yourself. You need to remember than you can't control the person from doing something, and that its not your fault. Maybe you should influence him to see a professional, you could even offer to go with him when you go and see him while your at your Aunts. Does your boyfriend know how close you are to this guy? It seems that your closer with this guy than your boyfriend. You need to be true to yourself and follow your heart, if something happens while your at your Aunts its obviously meant to of happened. It may help you decide between him and your boyfriend. If you too want to have a relationship and your in for the long hawl the distance will be nothing.
Good Luck, your being a really good friend wanting to be there for him, I admire you for that xx
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I really appreatiate you taking the time to respond full hertedly. But I must be complete honest. I don't have any feelings for him except on a friend basis. My boyfriend knows all about this. He even knew that I used to like him becuase I had to be honest because I love him. He understood and he gave me the time that I neede3d to get through. I did. But Now, this kid, doesn't even want to see me. It's killing me cause I can't see him like this, but I really don't know what to do.
thanks tho!
5!!
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