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i think, but i just dont know, but i think im in love...see this guy i just dont really know a whole lot about him, but he is everywhere i look...i told him i liked him like two months ago and i think i scared him off,,im in the process for asking for a truce and getting to know each other...but i have tried to get over him and just when i think i do, he pops up again...i dont know why...but all of these quizzes saying are you in love they wont tell you,,they are mostly about when you know the guy really well...but i dont hardly talk to him like maybe once a week...if i am in love i dont know what it feels like..i just know that i have never felt like this about anyone ever before...he is with me everywhere at everytime...but i see more to him than when others just see a pretty face..i see that he is a good person and has a lot of poteintial in his life..i see that he cares and is a gentlemen...i see him not the cute guy that plays soccer,,you know..i just dont know what to do...so can you help???

There is always the chance that you really do love him. But most likely, you're just infatuated with him. If you're not dating or you don't hang out with each other, then you can't possibly know the real him. You do care about him for more than his looks, but that is still a form of infatuation. There is always that 1 in a million time when you have love at first sight, but do you really think its that? Try to hang out with him, if you really did scare him off then work at getting him back, but don't act obsessive. Try to work up some small talk with him and build on that. Ask him to go out to eat or something, try to hang out with him. He has to feel something back for you for you to really know that this 'love' is worth pursuing.

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(Rating: 5) thanks i might try that

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