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I have been single for 10 months because my past relationship was with a guy I truely loved but he wasnt willing to devote himself to atleast calling me once a day to talk to me.
I have found this guy that I really like and He recently told me he liked me to. hes really nice, and not like most of the other guys i know. He is rude, he doesnt party much and hes not like most of the guys ive dated. I really like him but for some reason I get really shy around him (which isnt normal). The only thing Im afraid of is that Im going to push him away Like i do with alot of guys and i dont want to do that.
I think i push guys away when the treat me well but i dont understand why.
my question is. How do I try to losten up around him so that he knows i like him and so maybe we could move further and start dating. And how do I not push him away when this starts to happen?
Please help! (link)
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I'm the same way! I've also lost a good boyfriend due to my shyness and insecurity, so I learned that basically I have to love myself and flaunt that I do! Swallow that lump in your throat and be outgoing towards him.
And it's probably not that you push away guys that are sweet and good to you...it just feels foreign from the guys you've dated who've failed to commit.
Best of luck =D
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Im not usualy shy and i am really confident in myself and people can tell so its not that =/
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