Hi there.. My name is Kirsten.. I'm 21, I live in a small country town in South Australia, Australia. I love life, I love giving advice to anyone who needs it. I have a boyfriend of 5 years and were very much in lurrve ;) Feel free to ask me anything guys and gals.. thats what i'm here for. If I don't know the answer to your questions i'll try my best to give you what I know.. Have fun, live life to the fullest and ask away... ;) xoxo
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im almost never jealous or suspicious or paranoid, but for some reason, I don't want my girlfriend to drink when she's at a party without me. we live like 2 hours apart, and i only get to see her every other weekend. is this an irrational fear? i trust her completely at all other times, and it's not that i dont trust her, but i'm just worried that if she's too drunk, some guy will take advantage of her. idk why I'm thinking that but I just am. I know i can't control her or make her not drink, but is there anything I can do? (link)
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Your not being paranoid or suspicious or jealous.. your being a loving caring boyfriend.
Obviously your girl might take it the wrong way without thinking that your being controlling and over protective but perhaps ask her how would she feel if you went to a party with lots of girls around and you were drinking too.
I am 100% sure she'll think twice about getting too drunk next time.
It is completely understandable about how your feeling at the moment and although you trust her, there is no doubt that there is just a little question in your mind about what goes on, its normal. Don't think your a horrible person!
I know it's hard because you two live apart but maybe talk about taking your relationship to the next level, this might test her to see how much she really loves you and how much she is willing to give up for you.
I don't know how old you two guys are but if you are able to manage a long distance relationship you are obviously mature enough to be taking things a step further.
Just think about it, and also think about how much further your relationship with your girl is really going go. Just on the reality side of things, are you two planning on living together one day? Marraige? or are you guys kinda stuck because you live so far away..?!
Good luck, Hope everything works out for the best!
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yeah we are planning on going to college together and getting married eventually
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