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my boyfriend and I have had sex twice. I was a virgin when we met but he wasn't, so he's more experienced than me. When we have sex he always slips out and then goes back in and then slips out again and sofourth. We've tried him on top, me on top, and doggy style but I don't know how to do any of those well. Is there any ways I can become better at sex? b/c to be honest i have no idea what i'm doing really.

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Have you talked to your boyfriend about this? It sounds like you are quite insecure about a real important issue. Just because your boyfriend is experienced somewhat does not mean that he is god at it, and you not having had any experience does not make you bad.

Being good at it is bringing pleasure to your partner. And that is different for everyone. So you know, it may be awkward first, but it can also be sexy once you get used to it: ask him if what you are doing feels good. Show him what feels good for you. Finding out what makes your guy hot is half the fun, and you can always try new ways.

Also, if you still feel bad, go online, get a book on sexual pleasures. Look at it yourself, maybe with him...it could lead you to more pleasures.

Good luck


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