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hey, 15/f. sophomore in Highschool.

So, I really liked this guy named Josh. He had asked me out last year, I said yes, then changed my mind. I felt horrible, believe me. This year I began to like him again, and told him. He stares at me in lunch a lot, and tries to catch my eye, and then some days, he just doesn't. He's also been kind of a jerk lately. I don't talk to him often.
Then, there is Duston. He's cute, sweet, funny. I like him a lot now, but part of my heart is still hung up on Josh. Anyways, Duston and I don't talk often either, but when we do, he's SO nice. And I actually invited him to my Halloween party, he thinks he can go for sure. Perfect, right? Wrong. My very good friend Cassie likes him as well... but her and I both agreed that he will like who he likes and that's it. We don't want to 'compete' for a guy, but it's still a bit unsteady between us because I'm afraid they'll be together and I'll be upset, or I'll be with him and SHE'LL be upset.

So what guy should I go with? What should I do?


Thanks in advance and SO sorry its so long! (link)
Aww, I'd try for Duston. Sure, you might feel a little something for Josh, but if he's going to be mean about it, and not make the attempt to be good friends with you again, then so be it.

Sorry to say, but if you end up with Duston, Cassie will be a little upset, it's just human nature. But since you guys have spoken about it, I'm sure she'll be over it quickly. You can joke around like, "Well, Josh is all yours if you want him."
I 'onno, something cutesy like that. Enjoy your party, hope Duston can make it!


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