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Gender: Female
Location: minnesota
Age: 17
Member Since: May 28, 2006
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okay so im 15/f and my boyfriend is 18. we started dating about a week ago. well hes older than me hes just a lot more experianced than me. we make out all the time and hes really like "fast" with it but its been fine with me. but i let him finger me last night and it was the first time someone has. well he was really fast and when it started to hurt i told him to slow down and he would just whisper to me that "ill be fine and he knows what hes doing" and he kept going just as fast. so i finally told him to just stop and he didnt and so i closed my legs and he just pushed them back and held me there until he was done.. im kind of scared now cause we've talked about having sex but im scared he'll hurt me a lot more and i dont really know what to do cause i dont want to break up with him but it really scared me when he was basically holding my legs apart when i was telling him to stop. what should i do? (link)
dump him dump him dump him! find someone your own age too! they'd be a lot more respectful. no 18 year old is gonna be with a 15 year old because he truly LIKES her..he wants to get some. and the fact that he kept going when you told him to stop or slow down just reenforces that. i can tell you have a gut feeling this guy is bad news so stop ignoring it because females intuition is always right!


Rating: 5
thanks, but just letting you know, he's not just with me cause he wants to get some




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