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Hi there! My name is Alyssa, and I'm a teen adviser who would like to help answer any questions that you may have about teen life and beyond.

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-Alyssa-

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Well, I started going out with this guy on Friday. I dumped him today, because the relationship was weak, and it felt strained. He was quite upset and very surprised when I dumped him, and he actually told me he wanted to go back out with me. But both of his best friends who I am very tight with told me he only went out with me because he felt bad, and they didn't say it unkindly, they told me because they felt I deserved to know. And I don't get it. If he didn't actually like me, then why was he so upset about me dumping him? And i dont know what I should say to him. He told me to think about going back out with him, and i told him I would think about it. I'm really confused. :( Help pleasee.

Ok maybe the first time that he went out with was because he felt bad, but maybe after going out with you he relized that he did like you very much. give him another chance, and see if it is different this time.

hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T

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(Rating: 5) Thanks. actually, a lot has happened since I wrote the question. But thankk youu very muchh :)
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