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alright.. so ever since i told my boyfriend that i wanted to wait awhile to have sex.. it seems like things have really changed.. when we first started dating he always called me and when we were together he would tell me that im beautiful and sweet and perfect.. he even told me that he loved me.. but now he NEVER says nething like that.. do you tihnk its because of sex? i mean i know a lot of you girls out there have boyfriends.. and dont oyu think its weird if your boyfriend came over .. played his psp for an hr and then said he had to leave in an hr to play cards.. and said that he would call you later.. and doesnt call you the next day til 3:30? and then we talked at 3:30 for about 5 min and he said he would call me back and he never did so i started callin him around 8:30 and i called him like 6 times before he picked up and was like hey im playin cards and the call was lost.. and i tried to call him back like 5 but he never answered and hasnt called me back? am i just being too obsessive or what bc this really seems like not enough effort to be in a relationship with me.. please help i hate this feeling :(

he sounds like a scumbag. definitely get rid of him. its terrible,but it seems like he was in it for one thing:sex. and now that you told him you want to wait, he feels there is no need to be nice to you or act like a good bf. you dont desserve this. a good guy who cared about you would understand and respect your choice. dump him asap. you dont need to get used..its a terrible feeling, trust me hun

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(Rating: 5) thanks.. i just broke up with him last night bc i found out that he hung out with his exgirlfriend... i confronted him and he lied about it! so i told him i was done and that was it!
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