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Hi there! My name is Alyssa, and I'm a teen adviser who would like to help answer any questions that you may have about teen life and beyond.

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-Alyssa-

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Ok, I really like my BGF (or thought i did...idk) but anyway he can't date until he's 16 because he's a leader at the Teen Help Center run by a christian couple. Anyway he just got a promotion and is really important there and loves working there except that rule.
Well we have liked each other on and off for the last year and tonight we were at our church's youth group together and flirting and stuff like we do. We are best friends and really understand each other and he is 1 of the ONLY people that understand me and i love that. Anyway i want to go to Homecoming with him and he knows it, but isn't sure if he can or not. We were talking about it and my really good friend who doesn't want to go because she doesn't have a date and he took me by the hand and told my friend to wait for me and took me outside on the patio.
We sat together on a couch and then he said he was torn between being a leader and taking me to the dance. He said he likes me more than he ever has before and really wants to take me. I really don't want to pressure him so I was aying if its not right dont go. He's 15 by the way 16 in late spring. Then my dad called so i said ok I have to go. So we hugged and then he kissed me! Just a little peck (Thank goodness) but i had always thought i would be so happy if we kissed but immediatly felt wrong. I didn't talk to him after that just called my friend and we went to the car. He txted me t see if i was ok because i know i was being kinda weird with him. I told him i wasn't sure and tomorrow I'm gonna talk to him because I wasn't allowed to call him since tom. is school. Anyway I am just not sure what to do or say! I feel really weird. Like I am pretty sure I still like hima lot but I am dissapointed with our kiss and wish God wasn't telling me to back off. I am a distraction to him, a test. A hard test. And I realized it tonight. But I want him to do what's right and me as well. Please any help and/or advice will help!!! :D

I think you feel weird because he kissed you even though, he isn't 16 yet. you need to talk to him and let him know that you really like him, but you understand that it has to wait. Just think, when he does turn 16, how much you'll really like him, and how much better it would be for your relationship.

Hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T

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