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ok just to start i am a man..ish lol (16 years old) but the thing the proceeds to allways piss me off is the way i see other guys looking at girls as if they are mindless sex objects, damn i hate it. one of my freinds freind today was lookin at a girl across the street going oh wow looka her ass i'd bone that bitch and crap like that. am i missing something? because its demoralising as hell and i hate it... how do i just tell him that he is doing something that pisses me off to no end without being so... oh how to put it harsh... well maybe a little to show him a bit, but i dont know ime confused about it i just need a good one liner that will tell anyone i meet like it in the future.

Oh my gosh! Wow.
You're definitely the kind of guy that.. pretty much all guys should look up to. I'd personally like to say thanks so much for being one of the rare gentleman left. :)
Most girls don't like these kind of guys, obviously, and being a perve isn't attractive (let's exclude some of the 'easy skanks').
While I'm not sure of how he'll react, I really think you should just flat out say "Dude, that's really rude." It sounds incredibly lame, but I don't really know what would get the idea through to her. "She's not a peice of meat." might work. :P
Basically, ask him why he has to say crap like that. Let him know about how girls like sensitive guys, and how most girls would probably choose a guy like you over a perve.

I'm not sure this has helped your problem specifically, but I hope it helps in some way, and I hope you find your answer, becuase you're simply awesome! :D

XOXOKAT

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(Rating: 5) heh thanks alot #^_^# it has helped because now i have alot of support telling me to tell them to stop it .ty again x

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