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So I have an amazing boyfriend. I seriously think that I am in love with him. And this new kid came into my class and he is cute and funny and extremely nice. I am an all around flirty person, and I can't help but flirt with him naturally. We talked a lot today and I can't help but like him as more than a friend. I don't know whats wrong with me, I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND!! I really want to stop liking the new kid because things between my boyfriend are great. What can I do. I feel like such a bad person for liking someone besides my boyfriend.
HELP PLEASE.
Love,
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Lots of people often think they fall for someone else while still with someone. The key is not to let it really get to you. After you get over the initial infatuation, you realize thats all that it was, an infatuation. This new guy is new, and exciting while your boyfriend is more stable and the usual. You're not a bad person because you can't control how you feel. You can however control how much you talk to/flirt with this new guy. Have any other friends in the class? Try focusing more on them. You can include everyone in the conversation, just don't have anymore 1 on 1 time with the guy, and try not to think about him. If you find yourself thinking about him, just think about what you love about your boyfriend instead. Hope I helped a little :]
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thanks but i don't have this problem anymore
my boyfriend just broke up with me
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