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Now I know that I have nobody to blame but myself, but I have wrecked nearly every close friendship I have had in my life because I end up hooking up with my friends' boyfriends behind their back. Most of the time there is drinking involved, but I don't think that is the problem. I think the desire to do it is already in me before the drinks and it just ends up being easier to do once I am drunk. I do not know why I do this. I know that I just want to feel wanted and I like the attention that I get from men, I guess it is an ego thing. I really love my friends and don't want to hurt them but I can't seem to break this cycle. I don't want to have to avoid ever hanging out with a friend when their boyfriend is around, I need to find a way to just stop being such a horrible person. What can I do? Why do I keep ending up in this same situation when I conciously know that I don't want to do these things?

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(Rating: 5) I think you have a point, good advice..thanks!
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