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16/f. So this guy and I like each other. But about 3 weeks ago, he broke up with his girlfriend of a year and a half because she cheated. But I'm friends with her and she's still in love with him. Therefore, I feel like a terrible friend. I mean, I would horrible if someone I still loved was going out with one of my friends, and I really don't want to hurt my friend like that. I don't know what to do. This guy and I want to get to know each other better of course, so we're not gonna go out or anything right away, but I still feel bad. And sometimes I wonder why he likes me... I mean, they went out for so long and just broke up, but now he likes me? I would think he would need some time to get over her. I mean, we get along really well and stuff and have alot in common and whatever, so it's not like it's weird that he likes me, but so soon? Idk what to do, I'm caught in the middle of all of this and it makes me feel like a jerk; I don't want anyone getting hurt. Like, I want to go out with him eventually but his ex and all of her friends, who are also my friends, will probably be so pissed at me. But if I just didn't bother giving it a chance and going out with him, I'll probably miss out on something great and regret it. =( What should I do? Thanks for taking the time to read this. (link)
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If she really loves him like she says she does, she wouldn't have cheated on him. It seems like when she had him she didn't want him, and now that she doesn't she does. It's not your fault that they broke up, you and him should continue to get to know each other, but keep quiet about it for awhile, so that the drama isn't as bad when you two decide to tell people. You will have friends who side with her and some who side with you, but you have to tell them, that it's fair, she was the one who had him at one point and cheated. And as for him moving on quickly, as long as he seems genuinely interested in you, you should trust him. Good Luck.
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