Well I'm a very real down to earth advice giver.I'm not going to sugar coat anything.ill give you the best advice and it may come off kind of mean but I guarntee you by time your done reading you'll feel better and you will understand where I'm coming from...well in case your interested in knowing alittle bit about myself Ill tell you.I'm a female and I've experienced a lot at my young age.I'm a certified genius who skiped highskool and went straight to college which iam still currently in...I know a lot about life and people...so I can pretty much give you advice on any topic...even sex ;) and relationships...so pretty much that's about as much as ill tell you about myself...hope you like no love my advice...thanks for reading about me....you advicer jamie :)
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This is going to be a little bit confusing to explain, but I will try.
I have been reading a book on drug addictions, and it got me to thinking about regular addictions, such as caffeine, cutting, or even dancing. It's possible to become addicted to anything right?
Well I lost my boyfriend about 8 months ago. He & I had been together for 2 years & we were happy, but he randomly broke up with me in the worse possible way. After the first month of our breakup, we ran into eachother & had sex. I've always wanted him back & I still want him back, so everytime he wants to have sex, I've allowed it. & Not just allowed, but I've wanted it too.
I've tried moving on from him, dating other guys, having sex with other guys, but I always seem to want him. No matter what. He's always in the back of my mind.
So is it possible, that I could be addicted to a person, or to their sex? And if it is possible, how do you break the addiction, even though I don't think I want to break the addiction, because I like having that closeness with him.
I guess I just need some feedback. (link)
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Well I suggest that for now if sex with him makes you feel better fine but you're just makin it harder and harder to pull away from him by having sex with him when ever....even tho this might sound sleezy,maybe you should try having sex with a close friend very very often....maybe that will get your mind off of him...and try geting some one on one counseling that might help too....and most important pray to the father and the son...because jesus heals all pain and he loves you more than you believe....call out for him mind,heart,and spirit and he shall respond....I promise...I hope my advice helps you on your path to breaking the addiction....god loves you,jesus loves you,and even tho I don't kno you....I love you and really want to see you make it thru this tough time in your life....godbless you.....your new friend/advicer......jamie
P.s.....if you need a friend to vent your problems to just search for my yahoo on my page....godbless and I wish you the best of luck......jamie :)
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thanks for the advice, but i'm not a big believer on god, i feel as if he is the reason i'm not with my ex right now, but i don't blame it all on him. & i have had sex with other guys to keep my mind away from him, but it doesn't work. sex with other boys just isn't as good.
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