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when people say things about me ; i let it slip and slide. im not that person who starts the drama nor am i that person who takes things to seriously. but i let people get to me sometimes. for example;
my two best friends in the whoolle eentire warrld take advantage of me. i cant stand it. i dont say anything.
like they'll say some jokes about me and say there 'kidding' but , dude. deep inside it hurts. i meen its jokes they say over and over again . i just laugh with it and go on with my day.
i mean im that kind of person. usually things dont affect me. because im that kind of person who really doesnt care what ppl say about me. BUT. this is the first time that it hit me. Am i being too nice to let people to stomp on me? Am i not being taken seriously anymore? i need help! i need a way to stop this. and i know it wont do if i just say ; stop it hurts my feelings; because i alreday did that .
GR. its aggrivating me.
id appreciate it for the help!!
depressed deana (link)
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I think what you need to do is stand up for yourself more. Since it seems that you have been passive for a long time, people probably got the impression that it's okay for them to say whatever they want to you, because they know you won't say anything back or do anything in return. Who would know this about you better than your best friends? I think you need to seriously tell them how you feel. Tell them that it is enough. That you don't like being the butt of the jokes ALL the time. Once in a while it's okay to poke fun at ourselves and our friends, but you need to make it clear to them that it is too much for you.
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thank you so much. i appreciate it so much. tthhannkk youuu! youve been a whole lot of help and a stress releiver!! aha. ty again.
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