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Q: Okay so i'm not the sweetest one in the bunch. And please don't tell me it will change or my fav... make or find new friends. I've tried waiting for it to change and making new friends which doesn't work out either. I think I'm going to delete my myspace because no guy ever talks to me or anything so what's the point? I'm just really sick of guys not liking me. It makes me so mad. I try to make them like me but girls arent suppose to do that anyways. i'm getting tired of people telling me I'm pretty. If I'm so pretty than I would have a boyfriend by now of at least guys would like me. Okay so I'm not 15 or 16. i'm 14 and a half. One year doesn't count. i'm sick of seeing ugly girls with guys. It makes me wanna puke. How did they get a hott guy anyways. They're ugly. I hate to be a immature but I want to die. no there isn't much more to life than guys. Not to me! Guys are like all I ever think about. I just don't understand. i'm tired of waiting for this. I want guys to like me now! It's no fair. Every other ugly girl has a boyfriend. I just really don't understand. I hate school. I hate me. I hate the GUYS that don't pay any attention to me. I'm not fat. I weigh 100! I'm not that ugly. God! Just someone please help me understand why this is happening to me?
I'm sorry but like the last girl said, that is not very nice and also it sounds like you are very jealous of the other girls. I am sure you have good intentions, but the stuff you are saying is not going to get you any guy. Sure, guys care about looks. But the guys that will REALLY care about you do not. If you act nice and like you care also they will like you. And how can you say they are UGLY?!?!? It may sound kinda corny by now, but everyone is pretty. Or at least has the means to be pretty. Most people who arent good looking usually piles makeup on their face.. and guys dont dig making out with makeup... its kinda gross. And the people who DO have unfortunate acne or facial features, that doesnt make them ugly. teenagers all go through awkward years. Hey, I wouldnt be surprised if you got a big pimple every once in a while or a batch of acne. It doesnt make you bad in side. YOUR attitude, though, is NOT going to get you ANYWHERE!!! No offense, but maybe if you stop trying so hard the guys will like you more. I had a VERY hard time a few years ago - your age - with friends and boyfriends. I was trying too hard to be someone I wasnt, I was trying too hard to be popular and pretty, and I ended up turning mean to people I used to like.


Stop feeling sorry for yourself and love yourself. I am not saying YOU are ugly, but you should think before you call others that. And caring guys like girls that are THEMSELVES!!!

HOpe I HeLPed!!!!! ACe

Look I'm really sorry I didn't mean to offend anybody. I just wanted answers and yeah that girl isn't very pretty herself. I know I've seen her picture. She must know she is and that's why she got so mad. Anyways that's beside the point. I know it was a little mean but before I wrote that some girl really ticked me off so that's why I went all out. I really think that loving myself would be hard becuase I have a history of self destruction and I really hate myself. A lot more than most people do.

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