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Ok well her boyfriend came to school high right ? so now she wants to dump him and then she told me and when i saw him he looked totally fine hold on heres the convo lets say her name is Melissa
Me-You serious but when i saw him he was fine.
Melissa-He came at recess.
Me-I dont know but he looked fine to me
Melissa-So your telling me im lying great friend you are.
And i was just telling her what i saw i love her so much as a friend id do anything fr her but she blocked me and wont reply to my messages :( please any advice i need it so bad :(
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Well, you got her mad when you didn't agree with her. Not a good idea when dealing with female friends. However, she should understand that you are entitled to your opinion. After all you saw him with your own eyes. It would have been better to say that you didn't think he was high, but what did he do that made her think that he was. Maybe you didn't have time to do that.
If you are just interested in getting back on her good side, you have to agree with her. When and if you do get through, or get a chance to talk to her later, say something like. OMG, he was sooooo high. I can't believe he fooled me. You were right, but I should have listed to you, you know him better than I do.
Right now I think she is more mad at him for coming to school that way, then she is with you. I think she is just annoyed with you. While she was looking for someone to take her side and maybe help her decide her next step...... (should she break up with him or not????) .....you just didn't agree and that pissed her off even more.
If this all just happened this AM, just give her a few hours and then try her. Or make a point to run into her and let her know you agree with her.
Hey the real truth will come out eventually.... He WAS or WAS NOT high. But that is his problem. And if she dumps him because he can't stay straight, then he deserves it.
I hope this helps. I really think everything will be ok later today.
Michele
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Thank you so muchh but its 11:30 pm now and she still hasnt talked tome so yeh:(
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