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I am a teen who has been through tough break ups all the way to being threatened about my life. I just love helping erebody else. Its one thing if an adult trys to understand a teen. But it is another thing if a teen trys to understand the Teen.
(us teens lay it down like it is, you feel me?)

You got anything on yo mind let it out, even if its embarassing, cause I have people asking the same type of Whateva, u kno what I'm sayin?

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me and my boyfriend had been together for about 8 months, i know it doesn't seem like...that long. i lost my virginity to him. he cheated on me, twice. once in march, once in june. in june he had sex with the girl. i'm not sure what he did with the other girl, he didn't have sex with her though. he realizes now that he made a huge mistake. he wasn't the one to tell me, it was some of his friends. he called me later crying, apologizing, feeling so awful. then yesterday he came over, and we ended things. things were ended good though, not bad. i forgave him for what he did. we cried on eachothers shoulders. it all sounds a little bit pathetic. whats even more pathetic is that i miss him, i realize i'll get over it. i just don't know what to do. i still have feelings for him. i'm ridiculous. (:

Your not ridiculous, you are in pain. You gave it up to him. That makes you feel like your pivate part belongs to him. The fact that you were crying when he did wrong, just proves he made you feel guilty like you weren't protective enough, or didn't satisfy him enough. its not yours to blame. You need to remember that he broke your heart, and you have to move on quick, before he draws you back. I say call your girlfriends, and go party out. And try to flirt out a little bit, but not dangerous flirting, make sure others are with you. And do not think of him. Before you go out tell your girls the minute you break down, and think of him they should quickly change the subject no matter what. I'm sorry you lost your first sex, and i wish you the best.

P.S. You won't feel better unless you move on ;)

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(Rating: 5) aw thanks. that was totally perfect (:
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