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me and my boyfriend had been together for about 8 months, i know it doesn't seem like...that long. i lost my virginity to him. he cheated on me, twice. once in march, once in june. in june he had sex with the girl. i'm not sure what he did with the other girl, he didn't have sex with her though. he realizes now that he made a huge mistake. he wasn't the one to tell me, it was some of his friends. he called me later crying, apologizing, feeling so awful. then yesterday he came over, and we ended things. things were ended good though, not bad. i forgave him for what he did. we cried on eachothers shoulders. it all sounds a little bit pathetic. whats even more pathetic is that i miss him, i realize i'll get over it. i just don't know what to do. i still have feelings for him. i'm ridiculous. (:

This is tough on both of you.
First just take deep breath and make sure you are ok, and not ready to burts. If you are then go talk to a friend about it, you may not want to but talking about it will help a lot.
Second, if you fell like you need to cry then cry, don't hold it back to feel strong, crying can really help.
Third, always remember that he is not the only guy,when you are ready go check some others out and hang with your girlfriends!

Hope this helps, and GOOD LUCK!
AlyssaBT4T

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