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hey
15/f
I wanna start off by saying that I dont want to sound stuck up or into myself or anything.
Anyway, I havnt had my first kiss yet. Im not prude. Alot of guys like me and think im hot, something just usually goes wrong before I kiss them. I've done other stuff, just not kissing. Is this really lame?
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When I do have my first kiss, I want it to seem like I know what im doing. Can I do this through just being confident or should I practice or something....? Also are first kisses really that important? Or should I just get it over with so I have some experience for someone I do really really like
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No, it's not weird a lot of people your age haven't had first kisses yet. Personally I didn't enjoy kissing till I was a bit older.
You should give your first kiss to someone you care about who cares about you ideally. In fact pretty much every intimate action with your body should happen with someone that you care about who feels the same about you. That doesn't always happen but it makes it much easier when you are trying something for the first time when it is with someone who isn't just in it for the physical components. Also giving away parts of your body and kisses to random men cheapens sex and other activities when you meet your future husband. But if you only give out kisses and sexual activity to people that you care about you will be less likely to have emotional issues down the road. Versus the girls who are just throwing their bodies out there like hos.
Honestly every first kiss with a new guy is kind of like never having kissed someone because everyone has different kissing styles and you have to adjust accordingly. By the way the best advice I can give you is to not be too forceful, let him guide the way and just follow his lead for the beginning and then as you become more comfortable you can take a more leadership role.
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