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Ok I live where all the girls are major sluts and the guys are sex fiends and I've never even kissed a guy [[I mean I have kissed on the mouth but not french or anything]] and a guy I really liked is getting into me and he wants to makeout with me but I gave him an excuse because he's REALLY experienced with girls. I want to makeout with a guy and everything but not him, I dont want look stupid or anything so I already know I'm NOT [[I wont change my mind]] going to but I dont have anybody else who will help me!!! My sister wants to get someone to help me but there is no use for her with all the people she knows, anyway I dont know if you know what Im talking about but I would appreciate your advice!!!


-Stacy f/14

Stacy, it's good that you are aware of how the people around you act and that you are being sensible. It sounds to me that you like the thought of a "real" kiss but just havent experienced it and you want to experience it? If this is the case all i can say is dont do something just because everyone else is doing it and make sure you find the RIGHT PERSON, someone you actually like and who isn't trying to get a bit. It takes some time to find someone and all you can do is wait for that person. You can have fun but just dont do anything you dont want to with people you dont like. Make new friends and those friends could lead you to someone special, sometimes things happen when you least expect it. Dont feel in a rush to do anything, it doesn't matter that you haven't properly kissed a guy yet there is no rule saying you have to! =] I hope i helped if you have any questions feel free to ask, Good Luck Stacy x

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