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Q: So I've been dating this boy for a good 8 months.. It would've been 9 if he had waited a couple of days. And I think it's lame to ask questions on here, no offense, but I'm desperate. There's so much to the story, but to sum it all up, he broke up with me for another girl. I think he wants to go back out in the future.. And he said he couldn't be with me if he liked someone else. And I don't know, it's just so hard. I've been crying and crying because it took this breakup to realize that I was actually in love with him. And up until recently, he was too.

How do you get over someone you loved SO much? I don't even feel like getting out of the house and I don't wanna meet new people. I just want him back =/
I have had the same problem, but mine happened awhile back...my advice is:

Tell him how you feel...be strong and just tell him....
If he rejects you or tells you he doesn't want you yet....forget him. You don't need that. You need someone who always wants you...he's going to keep throwing you away because he knows you'll be there, all the time, waiting for him. Don't wait for a guy...never wait for a guy.

It might sting alot...but the hurt will fade as each day goes by, and one day...you'll find the guy I'm talking about, the one who never wants you to leave. I know because it happened to me and now Im fine and I love the boyfriend I have now more than I have ever loved anyone... So give my advice a try...relax a few days, ignore him...then go out and find yourself that one special guy...then the jerk who threw you to the side will see how happy you are and how unhappy he is and he'll be sorry.



Good Luck,
Hope I helped.

thanks so much

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My name is Jessica and I'm sixteen.

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