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Q: my two close friends are really "out there" like sexual and act really slutty, and whenever were out anywhere i feel like i dont fit in with them because i dont act like that. i have a lot of guy friends and i flirt but im not all sexual like them. i feel a lot uglier kinda beside them, so i hesitate to go up to guys with them. i dont know how i should look at the situation...

any advice/opinions would be great, thanks guys :]
the biggest thing is, you have to have confidence. if you're self-conscious, guys see that & it's a turn-off. confidence is a big turn-on, so if you act confident in yourself, guys will begin to notice you. don't change yourself to be more like your friends - obviously, you have better morals and respect yourself more than your friends do. guys may give them more attention, but that's just because they want sexual things from them and they think they're easy - something you don't want to be. a guy will notice YOU, on the other hand, for your personality as well as your looks. you may not get as many guys as your friends, but you'll get the GOOD ones - the ones who want more than just sexual things. on the other hand, your friends will get the pig-headed jerks who drop them after getting what they want. be yourself, be confident, and the right guys will notice you. forget your friends - you can still hang out with them if you want, but don't try to act like them. believe me, you're much bette [=

thanks so much

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