hey im Molly.Im 14 & i give great advice.
Gender: Female
Location: LA
Age: 14
Member Since: January 14, 2007
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Last Update: November 14, 2009
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months and I love him so much, but since the beginning of our relationship, there's been problems with him flirting. I've told him 4 times with 4 different situations to tone it down or try to stop and every time it got worse. The last time I told him, nothing has come up so far. But every so often he brags to his guy friends about some hot girl he saw wearing pasties in Havasu and blah blah blah. The worst part is he says it right in front of me, no holding back. I get the whole "macho" act in front of his friends and how he "got a boner" when she wet on the pole and crap, but i don't wanna hear that kinda stuff. It's bad enough that his eyes back track when I'm talking to him and a girl with big boobs walks by. It's not just him, it's me too. I tend to overthink anything and I'm not the kind of girl that just lets thing roll off and "worry about what's happening now and not in the future". whatever. I end up thinking about these little things way too much and ending up extremely depressed. With him, it's all talk, but that's what kills me the most and it really gets to me. Sometimes I think it'sd be easier if he actually cheated on me so I wouldn't have to worry. I know that sounds awful and weird, but I don't know how to explain it. It would be really great if I could get a point of view from someone who's been in a long relationship and has gone through something similar. (link)
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wow thats really rude. i mean what kind of sick mind says stuff like that?
It seems like your really depressed in this question.heres a question for you:
DO YOU LIKE HIM?
because half of that "looking at girls" concept IS HIS PERSONALITY. what you need to do is talk to him. and say okay (insert his name here) look! if you havent noticed, IM NO BOY! i dont like girls,i like boys..like you. but its hard to like boys like you if theyre COMPLETELY PERVERTED! so im gonna give you a choice, you can go ahead and go ask out that lady whos probably 40 right now that was humping the pole and live with that forever and never have life. or you can stay with me.
its your choice. so choose before i make the decision for you(like your gonna break up with him)
^^AND SAY THIS IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS
if he chooses you, just dont hang out with him. make HIM hang out with you.
WOW
hope i helped,
XOXO,
MOlly(:
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Thanks so much, and yes I do like him, and I try really hard not to be jealous and he says he'll never "do" anything and I'm like well if you can't get over your flirting issues by now, then what's the next 5 months gonna be like. I'm just tired of sitting at home depressed and turning down invitations from my guy friends because i know I would be mad if he went out with his girl friends, even though he does and he says flirty stuff with them, like I love you and I miss you and we should hang out just you and me. I don't wanna say "YOU CAN'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS WHO ARE GIRLS!" because that's not fair, but he thinks what he says isn't bad and that he's just joking but with me it's not a joke at all. What do you think about that?
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