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Hi,
my names Hermione as you may have guessed. I found this site whilst browsing one day and i though it was a really lovely idea and i wanted to be part of it. My firends are always coming to me with their problems because i'm always the sensible one. so i thought it eould be nice if i could help other people too.
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I'm a 16 year old female and I have been dating a boy for about 3 years, we are very close and really care about each other. We are also about to move in together in a few months. But i also have this other guy he was my first love and i dont think we ever truly let go of one another. The other weekend he and i went camping with some friends and we got alot closer it feels as though we rekindle that old flame. I love my current boyfriend alot and dont want to lose or hurt him but when im with this other boy i feel that same love for him.
What should i do?
Someone please help.

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Confused Heart (link)
Your first love is always really special, it's something you'll never forget. Which is why your feeling this towards him. You first have to find out whether your ex feels the same way you do, and whether he wants a relationship and its not jsut old feels rising to the surface that are quickly going ot be forgotten again. But you've got to ask yourself: is it really worth throwing away your current relationship on the hopes that you'll rekindle the feelings you both had? It's as simple as that, if you feel that it is worth the risk then you have to trust your feeling and go for it. But if not, if your not sure that you want to risk what you've got then you have your answer.
you've jsut got to trust yourself.
Hope i helped.


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thank you you have helped me greatly




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