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16/f
i have been getting weird feelings in my stomach && have not yet got my period this month. it`s now the 25 of july. i usually get my monthly around the 18th. i have been late before but not this late. my stomach makes strange sounds. kinda like im hungry and its growling. but i can`t stop eating.
can you tell me some early signs of pregancy ? early as a month ?
and if im pregant can you tell me if or how i can get an abortion with out my parents knowing ? or a house hold way. or somethinggg. im too youngg. (link)
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Hi honey
I really hope (with you) that you are not pregnant. But here are some normal signs, but not every one gets these signs.
tender breasts. enlarged breasts. frequent urination. nausea. Not many more this early.
I don't think a noisy stomach is a sign. Increased appetite, but too early for that I think.
Can you get a home pregnancy test kit. Costs about $10 - $20. You have to use 1st AM urine for testing.
If there is a planned parenthood agency in your city or town or nearby, seek them out.(check out on the internet) They can tell you whether or not you can get an abortion without your parents consent, in your state.
And please, if it turns out that you are not pregnant, never, never ever have unprotected sex again. Get your own condoms and refuse to have sex unless the boy puts one on. Sure it nice to close to someone and be held in his arms and be intimate, but here you are ALONE, dealing with this. Think about yourself, think about how it would dissapoint your parents, and never have unprotected sex again.
Good luck to you dear
Michele
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