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A little more than a year ago a friend was diagnosed with cancer. I decided to be optimistic and treated it like it wasn't a big deal. She would go through some unpleasant chemo and then it would be over.
We have kind of a teasing relationship so I made a point of not treating her any differently, while other friends were more sympathetic and altered plans to suit her condition.
Now I've learned that treatments didn't work and they give her about a year. I feel so bad about the way I treated her that I haven't been able to face her since. How can I make amends?
Tell her you didn't want her to think just because of this that you were gonna change your friendship. And tell her it was to keep her comfortable. She will understand.
Most people hate friends being sympathetic and changing their whole relationship.
(Rating: 3) More like to keep ME comfortable. It wasn't right.