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Location: New Jersey
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Age: 17
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I recently saw a question here....it kind of resembles mine. about online relationships. I'm a 15 year old girl and my best friend (who is also a girl) is 18. I don't know WHAT THE HELL is going on in her mind. She's always depressed, and upset. Over and over. So what does she do? She gets herself an online boyfriend. They start talking. Sending e-mails on and off. And listening to each other talk through MSN voice clips. (This has been going on for a year). Whenever I question her about the reason for this..she always tells me "how can you say that? I love him!" In my mind, I'm thinking (how do you love him? you don't even KNOW him!) That doesn't worry me so much though. Because we live in a different country than him. What DOES worry me...is that she has seen only 2 pictures of him! And the pictures that she has seen, were blurry, and of really bad quality. I'm trying to knock some frikkin' sense into her. She's sending him all of these pictures of herself because he, very nicely, asks for them (I've talked to him before, he's a total FAKE nutcase). I can't stop her. She has plans to move in with him. how can you move in with a stranger ...of whom you only saw...2 horrible-quality pictures of? Maybe that's not even him! And she still has so much trust for him. I tried to sit down and talk to her. She won't listen. What should I do? I don't want her to ruin her life! Could this be a wanting of attention? Is she desperate? :( (link)
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Well i don't necessarily think she's ruining her life because she has an online boyfriend, but i do agree with you when you say this all could have been a wanting of attention. Actually i think at first it may have been. From what you have told me she's happy now because she has someone to show her love and affection, besides her family and friends. Most of the time that's how all online relationships start. People go online to be noticed, to be recognized, maybe even to be accpeted, to get that wanted feeling,to find someone who cares,someone who will understand you, someone to listen to you when no one else is around...etc. you have told me that she was depressed and upset all the time, and now that she has what she has been craving she satisfied.
The best advice i have for you is to just be there and look out for your friend. Share your feelings with her. Tell her that you don't get a comfortable feeling from that guy. But you also have to keep in the back of your mind you and your friend may not have the same taste in guys. What you find repulsive, your friend may find attractive.
Let me know how things workout.
(: Smilez Til Later :)
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