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feeling the warmth enter my body.
it's summer-it's sun.
what sun? i'm in love with the son.

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walking by the sand, and thinking.
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OK...so i'll try and make this short...me && this guy named jonathan have liked eachother for about 1 month now. we would talk on myspace and call eachother sometimes. then two days ago we got into a stupid argument that was pointless but, it was VERYY minor. WE GOT OVER IT...so he was suppose to ask me out but, he didn't. and he posted a bulletin on myspace saying that he was taken and loving it. i thought he meant me,,but I found out yesterday he's back with his ex. He didn't even tell me..my best friend did.. and when i found out, i was CRUSHED.. i was in tears and i couldn't believe that i was actually going through this again.[this happened w/ another guy].. and my friend told me that even though he's back with his ex,,he still has feelings for me. AND I'M HIS #1 ON MYSPACE..if that even matters...

so my questions are:

should i still talk to him??!! ..what's the point he has a girlfriend now..right??!!..i'm not even sure if i still like him because it hurt me soo much..should i move on to someone else??!!..what should i do overall..??!!

THNX IN ADVANCE

first of all whatever advice i offer to give you, you can either take it or leave it, use your best judgement.

there is jumbleness of words inside my head, but i know what advice i want to give you-just the ideas i'm trying to convey into words.

this guy, jonathan, he's stupid for playing you like that. but thinking of this, how much does he mean to you? and he to you?

talking on myspace, is simply just that. myspace is myspace, it's like las vegas. but there's a point in time, if he really cares about you, enough to even go beyond words and say, "i like you, and i still have feelings for you" he needs to show it.

him getting a girlfriend after talking to you for a month and then leading you on, it's just pathetic and wrong. it's like a terrible nightmare that you want to wake up from. like someone stabbing your heart and breaking into a million pieces. but that feeling won't last long, and ur worth so much more.

i know what you're probably thinking, what do you know? and your probably right. because i don't know your situatuation and could never pretend to.

yes, you should still talk to him, to answer your question. don't give him the cold shoulder. the worst kind of punishment is solitary-and that's what the cold shoulder is.

i can't tell you what to do, but personally, moving on is the best you could do.

don't cry because it ended or what could have been, be happy that it happened. it's in the past now, and all you could do is that.

sometimes things in our past run over the ideas and relationships that could happen in the future.

so just keep your mind over. i know you'll get through this.

-the greenness


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(Rating: 5) out of all the answers i thought urs was the BEST ... no joke..i like the words that you used. your VERY intelligent..but i'm sure you already knew that... THNX ALOTTA HEARTS!!!
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