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ok, my best friend (we'll call her "mary") asked out my other best friend since 1st grade (lets call him "joe"). but i didn't know that since i go to a different school then they do. so, "joe" said no, because they were friends... then, a couple months later, "joe" asked me out. i said yes because i liked him more than a friend, and because i didn't know that "mary" already asked him out. then i told "mary" and she got all mad at "joe"... not me. but now, there is this awkwardness between them. i donno what to do.
ok, now i have a second problem. "joe" and i have been together for 2 weeks and 1 day. and i asked him the other day, "if i was a flower which would i be and why" and he said, "rose because i was beautiful"... so i was happy with that responce... until i asked him "if i was a color, which would i be" then he said "green because i'm a vegetarian". i didn't think that was the greatest answer. what should he have said???
now i have a third problem. every time i get off the phone with "joe", he says "well, i gotta go, i'll call u later, bye"
then i say bye back... and that's it... he doesn't even say i love you or ne thing... do you think it is too early??? should i make the first move????
i also have a forth question. tomorrow, "joe" is going on his first plane ride to florida... and i wanted to say "before you leave and go on your trip, i wanted to tell you that i love you". do you think i should say that????
plzzz answer quickly cuz i don't have very long until tomorrow. (link)
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Well, your first problem is a tricky one, what should you do? i understand that they are your friends but it is possible that "Mary" is upset with "Joe" for not feeling the same way as she did. You did not know about this from before so you are not to blame, this is something that "joe" and "mary" need to solve on their own. There is very little that you can do.
Your second problem, "Joe" said green because you are a vegetarian, this shows he knows you and thats where he is drawing his answers from. Which means he must say you are a rose because he truly believes you are beautiful. What he said is what he thinks, everyone has different opinions.
Your third problem, it has only been two weeks since you have been together, maybe he is just not at that stage yet. Don't rush him, if he wants to take things slow let him. As for you, if you are at that stage and do love him then yes, tell him how you feel. It could make your relationship stronger.
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thx soo much, your advice was great. i endend up not telling him that i love him. i felt like it wasn't the right time. thx again!
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