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Ok I have been datting my boyfriend for almost 9 months.Let call him 'bob'. Well bob is best friends with my best friend lets call my best friend 'stacy' so 'bob' is best friends with stacy and stacy is also my best friend. But it seems like to me they hang out more than me and him do. And it really upsets me.. beucase it makes me think that bob is doing stuff behind my back with stacy and whenever they are around eachother and they call me.. he acts completly diffrentt, and it makes me so.. mad. I dont know what to do or think.. is he doing stuff behind my back.. should I tell him how I fell ( which I have tried and it just starts a fight) what do I do? what do I say? please help me.

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Much Love XoXoX

just sit him down and talk to him. tell him first that you dont want to fight, and you just dont want to feel like this anymore.

tell him that you know that him and stacy are best friends, but they spend more time with each other then you both do.

tell him that you trust him enough to know that he wouldnt cheat, but you worry sometimes because its a natural instinct to feel a little jealous when your best friend hangs out more with your boyfriend.

tell him that he acts so different around stacy, and ask him why he does.


hope that helps a little :]

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