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this might be long but i need help please help. ok so i had a boyfriend who i really loved. and i know he loved me too. there were jsut moments when you know you can feel it. we were fine and all but then i broke up with him because he was acting different liek he wasnt the same we lasted 10 months. so i asked for a break. during that break i missed him so much and he always said he missed me too. we would always talk and such. but then i decided that i wnated him back. so i tried to talk to him and he told me that i dont deserve him and i said why? and he said if i knew all of the bad things that he did to me then i would neevr want to hear from him again. so i told him tell me. and he said tht he doesnt want to hurt me but that he needs to tell me to get it off his back. he said that he cheated on me. those 8 months out of 10. i thought i was going to die when he said that to me. he also told me that he had sex with 2 girls and that while we were at themall and i went to the abthroom he saw one of his exs and hang out with them. he told me he loves me, and i was the only girl that he loved but that he couldnt take me back becuase after what he did things would never be the same. he says hes really sorry and that he does love me. he sid i showed him what real love is and that he messed up things badly and i shouldnt be with him. he said i too good for him. but after everything he said to me i still miss him. why? how can i get hurt and still miss him? what should i do now? any comments advice? thanks! for the help i really do appreciate it!
the reason you still miss him and love him, is because he came clean. he cracked under the weight of lying to you for eight months and told you.
he told you because he didnt want you to find out later and hate him, he probably wanted you to feel bad but at the same time remember him as nice because he told you the truth.
sweetie, find another man. if you want him back and he takes you back, you know hes not gonna change, hes gonna do the same things.
he's right, he doesnt deserve you because you didnt cheat or lie to him, but he did to you. he sounds like a player. find someone else that will treat you better.
hope that helps a little :]
(Rating: 5) hey thanks so much i really do appreciate that you actually read my question i know it was pretty long. thanks so much!