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Hey everyone! My name is Ash, and I love giving out advice. I am a very friendly person, I am outgoing, and honest. My friends always come to me for advice, and I always give it. I've lived a life that has taught me, a many of things, and if I can help someone, I'm doing okay. [:

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ok so i have sort of a problem. im 15/f. i have, well had this best friend, lets call her w. ok well w and me were the closest friends you could possibly find. we were together 24/7. i loved her sooo much but at first she was kind of mean. at school she would always tell people all this bad stuff about me if we got into a fight. but we would act like everything was ok when it was just me and her. but she has always had this guy best friend and he is pretty mean to me and always makes fun of me with her. i just ignore it and act like everything is ok. then we started become really good friends with lets call her m. so me w and m became a group of friends, but then i was getting pushed aside. then they became friends and made this mean nick name about me and always talked about me, but pretended everything was all cool and they invited me places. but sometimes it just really hurts. but the other day i was pushed over the edge but im afraid to show them, because i dont have any other friends and its kind of hard to make new friends when everyone has their clicks already set and everything(im a sophomore by the way) and i want new friends, but m and w are so funny and i love being around them. but they are so different behind my back. i dont know what to do. i really need advice on how to deal with this.i've been friends with them like my whole freshman year, but i need a change because its making me feel bad and really crappy.

Sweetie, those are definitely not friends. You should stand up for yourself, and not let people treat you that way. Friends are people that you love being around face to face, but when you aren't around, they won't talk about you behind your back. Friends don't make you feel bad and "really crappy", friends uplift.

Making friends is always easier said than done.
In some classes, you should try branching out, joining a club or a sport that you like. That will make it easier to find people to be friends with, because you all have something in common already. You should also, try and be friendly to everyone. Smile a lot, and use body language that shows that you are open to making and meeting new people. It's not going to be an overnight process, and if it is, consider yourself not only lucky but blessed. Love yourself, so others can love you.

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