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OKEY WELL WHERE TO START LETS SEE..UMM iM 17 && A GiRL && i HAD SEX FOR THE FiRST TiME LiKE A WEEK AGO ON TUESDAY && iT WAS WiTH MY EX. NO WE WERENT DATiNG AT THE TiME..BUT WE JUST HAVE A VERY CONFUSiNG RELATiONSHiP [MORE LiKE BEST FRiENDS] [JUST A LiTTLE SEXUAL LOL] BUT YEAH iT THAT WAS ALL FiNE && ALL. BUT THEN LiKE FRiDAY ONLY 3 DAYS LATER i HAD SEX WiTH SOMEONE ELSE. [iT KiNDA JUST HAPPENED] && i FEEL REALLY GUiLTY ABOUT iT. BECAUSE i LOST MY ViRGiNiTY[SOMETHiNG THAT i HELD DEARLY] && WiTHiN ONE WEEK i HAVE ALREADY HAD TWO SEX PARTNERS. i JUST WANT TO KNO iF THAT MAKES ME A WHORE. SiNCE LiKE NiETHER ONE OF THEM WERE MY ACCTUAL BOYFRiEND. && NOW THE SECOND BOY THAT i ''DiD iT' WiTH DOESNT EVEN TALK TO ME [HE AVOiDS ANY CALLS OR TEXT] iM TOTALLY CONFUSED. WAT SHOULD i DO. && DOES THiS MAKE ME A BAD PERSON?? PLEASE ANSWER HONESTLY. THNX. =]]]]

Okay. Well it seems to be pretty common for good friends to have sex, and if your okay with that being your first time then that is great! Now about being a "whore", i would definitely disagree. For one, you're 17 and bound to make mistakes because of being sexual. I know exactly how that is. And for two, if you are able to admit that what you did was wrong then you are for sure not a whore. A whore would look at that situation and feel proud. You don't. You're only human. And it's great that you realize that it was a mistake. Now about this boy, idk if you just met him or what, but it seems like he may have just wanted you for sex and sex only. But i dunno how your relationship has been with him in the past, so thats a tough one to answer. Boys really don't make sense sometimes. But just know you are by no means a bad person. You simply made a mistake. As long as you can forgive yourself then it will be okay. I hope this helped!

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(Rating: 5) THNX. THAT ACCTUALLY MADE ME FEEL A LOT BETTER. && NO i DiDNT JUST MEET EiTHER ONE OF THEM. BUT THE ONE THAT iS MY BEST FRiEND iM ACCTAULLY OKEY WiTH iT. BUT i JUST NO TO WATCH WAT i DO BETTER NOW. BUT THANK U. =]]
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