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Q: 15/f
I'm an emotional wreck. And it's almost hard to believe that this has been caused by one guy. I used to be in love with him. He told me he didn't like me in that way (I suppose because he's older). Okay. I accepted the fact that he doesn't like me. But I still am always thinking about him! Always! Always waiting for hours on MSN, while we were in school, anywhere. I'm constantly thinking about him. I can never stop. He's just always on my mind. I don't know what to do. I can't concentrate on anything anymore. It's like, my whole life revolves around one guy. I know he will never like me and that nothing will ever happen, but I'm just so emotionally attached to him. I don't know how to overcome this and stop it. I've tried getting my mind off him; impossible. And jealousy...is a feeling that never goes away as well. *sigh* What can I do to keep him off my mind?
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Heyy.
I'm 15/f also.
I understand where you are coming from. When my exboyfriend dumped me, I was a wreck too. I couldn't sleep, I couldn't eat, and for a while, I just shut out everyone. But I did eventually find how to get over him.
I found that being single, is a time to find yourself. I know that that sounds insanely corny .. but it's true. You find out who you are without the impact of others.
Being single made me a stronger person. And once you know exactly "how you are" and what kind of person you are .. then, if you feel confident enough, can let go. Let go of him. If you say he doesn't like you like that, then let go. I know it sounds harder than that .. but you're a 15 year old teenage girl, you need to live! Get out there and meet other guys! Good luck! If you need any more help, feel free to messege me!
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