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my name is elizabeth. i love to have fun. i've experienced a lot for my age. i love too easily. i have goals for myself. i'm an open book so ask anything you'd like.
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so i dated this girl Ashley about 4 months ago and we broke up. We went out for a little longer than 4 months and i even told her that i loved her which is a huge deal to me. She was my first really serious relationship and i thought that we were perfect for each other. We then broke up bc we went to different schools and we realized that i wasnt working. I thought i had moved on since then but i havent had any serious relationships just like hook up kind of things. I recently found some pictures we took together (just normanl ones) and all of a sudden i cant stop thinking about her and i keep thinking that i made a HUGE mistake breaking up with her. Im scared to call her again but i really want to talk to her. Is this normal? should i feel this crappy? (link)
it's normal. you're heartbroken. my advice? call her and talk to her like you're friends. talk to her a few times and if the subject doesn't come up, like if she doesn't bring it up, ask her about it. tell her how you feel, even if she has a boyfriend, she needs to know how you feel, and for you to feel better, you have to tell her.
good luck.


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