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im in 8th grade i go to Anthony wayne.
i love volleyball. I also love music i would def. die without it. i love having fun and hangin wiht my friends. my friends and my family are my life.i have one brother and hes older.all my friends come to me for advice, and told me i should do this so here i am. :)

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Its been almost one year since this all began. It all started early September and when Josh broke up with me September 21st 2006 I went into a huge depression. I cut my wrists, stopped talking for a little, and completley lost myself. Since he broke up with me hes only gone out with one other girl, my best friend, but hes gone out with her 5 times off and on. But he has gone out with me about 5 times off and on too. So theres this tension between me and my bff now. But also since he broke up with my I kept trying to replace him with someone else. On my second try (Steven) is when things went out of control because when he broke up with me the entire depression thing got worse and I don't know who I am, or who I am supposed to be. Now I'm doubting whether or not I love my current bf. Am I just trying to replace Steven? Or am I still trying to replace Josh? For a while I had no problem saying I love you. But my sister said "Ever since Josh you haven't been the same" and Im shocked at how right she is. How do I find myself again, but now that I think about it I don't even know if I want my old self back because I always hated the way I was. And now im just so confused. I don't really have a specific question but what's your opinion on this whole thing? Please anyone help me.

honey,

Boyfriends come and go. they break your heqarts and you break some too. life is hard. and you have been having a bad year. i am so very sorry for this to happen to you. i dont think that your tryin to replace him. i just think that your lonely so you need the comfort, or securnisne. that you feel when you have a boyfriend.no mattter how upset and hurt and depressed you feel never go to the extremems of harming your own body...never. Maybe its too soon to see other people because you just get hurt. Well obvisuly your sister is seeing problems in you and maybe you can confide(tell her) in her. I understand that there is now tension between you and your friend maybe you and your friend need to talk and decided whether you two need space or not. But if you just want to gather your life together and figure out who you are? then maybe put ur realtionships on hold and go be with family. family will always be there no matter what and they define you. They will help you through anything. ALways friends will help. But friends can turn your back on you, but you always have your family. Just try and not date. Because you will get more upset. Realtioships are hard some times. Maybe you just need to create friendship with some boys and get close for comfort but not too close, and then gain this friend back, and lean on your family. But most important find yourself. Its not hard. You just ahve to find out who you really are and what you want to be like. Your real self is still there it never left. You just covered it up with this new you. And you said that you didnt liek the old you, well take the old you and better it. But dont try and be someone your not. i hope i helped.if you ever need to talk i have a s/n its Awsoftballbabe23 if you ever need to chat.

thanks

abby.

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