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ok hi im jenny
im 15 years old and i have been having a terrible 5 months.
ok so i dated this kid who is 2 years older than me for 2 years. He also lives across the street from me. I also would like to believe that we were in love once or so I thought. He really seemed to love me and i sure as hell loved him. Then after about a year and a half of dating i felt like i was kind of getting tired of him and so were my friends, so i broke it off. I dated another guy that was his age and it made him terribly jealous. He would still call me every night and I would talk to him. Every night he would tell me he loved me, even when i was dating someone else. But the bad part about that was i told him "i love you" back, because I really did. Your probably wondering why I did'nt just break up with the boyfriend I had then and go back to dating the one that I really loved. Well, I thought he wouldn't take me back and that he was just messing with me. So I dated that one guy for a few months making my ex jealous and then I finally broke it off. When i told the guy that i like that I broke up with that one guy he seemed happy, but that was it. After that we didn't hangout as much as I would have liked to and he didn't call me every night like he used to. I was so depressed. We kept talking occasionally and sometimes we would hangout, but rarley. Then one night I was going to introuduce my friend to him so we went outside and met up. He was acting VERY strange..he didn't give me a hug or even say hi to me, he was in a terrible mood. So my friend and I were not going to stand for it so we went back inside. I was SO MAD! I stayed up all night waiting for him to call me, but he never did. Then the next day he called, but being stubborn I did not answer thinking that i would call him back later. And yes i did call him back way later that night, but no answer. I kept trying and he never answered, so then i knew something was wrong. Now on this very day I still love him and want him back, and it has been 4-5 months. Oh by the way he has a new girlfriend that he is in LOVE with and he wont talk or even look at me. I REALLY NEED ADVICE and im sorry if this is confusing or too long but please read it all.. i want advice. just answer me back or email me if you have any questions. BUT PLEASE DONT TELL ME TO MOVE ON..TRUST ME I HAVE BEEN TRYING BUT HE LIVES RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET I SEE HIM EVERY DAY! (link)
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oh :[ that makes me so sad to hear, I know how you feel, its so hard to stop loving someone like that. I never did. sometimes someone can be so mean to you and you still love them.. why? well thats just how it its. I understand how special he is to you, I really do... it must be hell to see him every day.. that is so hard. well I think the only way to really solve the problem is by talking to him... you have to make him. find a way. call him non-stop go knock on his door, write him a letter, somehow you need to get him to listen to him, and when he does you need to express all the feelings you still hold for him. I know how hard it is to move on. so I think you should talk to him and try to get some kind of understanding, even if you don't have a dating relationship with him, any relationship is better then what your dealing with. so I think you need to attempt to gain back some of what you lost :] im really sorry, I hope I helped you and I really hope things work out for you. let me know if you need any more advice
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thank you so much that helped
the only thing is he blocked me on everything and i tryed calling him a while back and he never answered so now im to scared to call him.
and he looks so happy with his new gf im to scared to talk to him and his whole family hates me. so my only hope is to see him alone and close and then go up to him but i doubt he would talk to me bc i tried that once and he like walked inside his house. so i think there isnt any hope for me. thanks though !
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