Member Since: July 13, 2007
Answers: 38
Last Update: August 18, 2007
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Alright. I have a bit of a dialema on my hands. I really like this guy [who happens to be my boyfriend]. I think I might love him but I'm scared to say so because of previous experiences.
But I goofed up. Big time. I cheated and gave a guy a handjob. It was a dare. And I know that doesn't make it any better at all, but you have to understand, I didn't want to.
So I told my boyfriend because guilt has been bothering me for a while and apparently, alot of people knew about it. He was mad. I haven't talked to him in three days unless you count a minute long conversation yesterday.
I need to know he's okay, that he doesn't hate me; even though I know he has every right to. I betrayed him. So do I try and get him to talk to me? Or do I back off? I don't want to bother him and make him more angry but I don't want it to seem like I don't care enough to see how he's doing! Argh! I'm so damn stupid. Why would I do that?! (link)
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THAT heppend to me once but it wanst that sexual it was just a kiss a big kiss and whikle i was gooing out wit this guy i was in love with but we were in a fight so i no the whole guilt thing give him some time to cool off depending on when you told him about a day or 2 and then try talking to him and explaing to him that you didnt want to do it , it just happend and try explaining everything you feel 4 him and that the other guy means nothing to him...... you can just say im sorrry and let him decide wat he wants to do..
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Thank you for the feedback, I appreciate the responses. I'm just going to back off for a while and see where that leaves me.
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