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i dont remeber if i posted this thing bfore, but its really starting to annoy me. i have a twin sister who i am very jealouse of. she is smarter then me, and she is prettier then me and everything she does is just better then me. even her grades and our parents are alll happy over her and my mom always ends up getting mad at me and telling me to try harder whenever i get my report card. i mean and shes skinner then me and idk what to do about it...like im totally jelouse and ive had a million breakdowns about hating the way i am. idk wat to do anymore. i can't handel being second best. i just need advice. what really gets me is that when we move to Gerogia soon, everything depends on your grades and i dont think im good enough bc shes going to do sooo much better then me. i feel like when we move im just going to be a freak with no life while my sister gets all these friends. im 15/f. (link)
hey well im happy that i can help thats what i am here for lol
but i think you should like really talk to her. like sit her down and have an emotional talk. i mean shes your sister and weather you doubt it or not she loves you.
talk to her tell her that you think shes better then you. copy WELL whatever she does. you MUST be missing somethhing maybe a study techique she uses? there must be something because youre both sisters and your equal. im sure youre parents love you the same they just want you to try harder so they think and tell you that because they think that if they tell you that then maybe you will make more efforton your school work.
for studying try to study a little bit every night of what you learn that day. like something that you know you wont be able to remember. and just keep doing that with the rest of the subjects you dont understand. you know what better yet! make your sister study with you. there you will see what she does.
for the prettier part i doubt that shes prettier since you know you guys are twins. haha. but yea, if you dont like the way you look get a makeover. go to the salon get a new haircut, get new makeup. and clothes! start the new school year fresh.
make sure you pay attention to evrything she does. im not saying to copy her but you know learn from her. learn from her mistakes and talk everything out. you guys might just be able to learn from eachother.


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thanx very much for helping me, and i think that i will talk to her. its just that i pretty much do the same things as her, like i study like her i act like her ((sometimes)) and like idk. i think im my own indivitual prson and i like that. also wheneer i try to talk to her shes always like "ann stop being so stupid, you are smart and stop talking about it" or sumtin like that. can u help with with this? ur the only person who like helped me.




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