Well I am 13, but I am not your typical 13 year old. I have been through alot, so you can ask me anything. I love to be on here, so I can see what problems people have, so I can try to relate to them. I am a punk, I am no where close to a girly girl. I wear what I want to wear and if anyone doesnt like it then thats their problem. I dont care what others think of me. I wear black nail polish, punk hair style, and I skateboard ALOT! I think there is no problem with bisexuals or gays, even though I am straight. I have a best friend who is gay and I think he is so awesome. I love to help people, and I am really funny once you get to know me. I love my friends to death, and I hope I can help you in anyways that I can.
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Location: South Carolina
Age: 13
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okay, my boyfriend calls me his everything.. and that he doesn't want to loose me and stuff like that.. and me & him worked out EVERYTHiNG so theres basically nothing wrong in the relationship. but one of the things that we worked out still bothers me.. cause yannoe it was dealing with this girl .. who used to be my friend cause she talked behind my back and stuff.. and was also his last girlfriend. and it had been almost a year since they've broken up. and hes kinda stupid in relationships cause they stopped talking because she was talking behind my back to him, so he didn't want to be friends with her anymore. and like 2 months later she talked to him first, and now they're friends again. like.. bestfriends. so thats why i can't trust them together yannoe? cause she told him that she doesn't hate me and she stopped talking about me a long time ago. but EVERYBODY knows she hates me... she even left some clues that are obvious that says she hates me.. and she talked about me to him, but he was slow enough not to know. and he says "she wouldn't lie to me.. cause we're good friends." and he even talks about our relationship problems with her.. but the reason why i have changed, and i don't want her to get to know me anymore. and then when we talked it out... he told me that he'll change and he'll come to me now, and talk it out with me for now on. and that he loves me, and that his ex and him are bestfriends.. but she could basically be his mother (not the first time i heard that), and that i'm not competing with her or anything. >. (link)
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Well ok first of all I am sorry but this is going to be kind of long. Ok well first of all you have to listen to your heart, and if your heart is telling you to be with him then stay with him, no matter what your friends or family says. Also maybe he has more girls that are friends than guys that are friends. You just have to learn to accept that. Part of a relationship is being honest with each other, and if he told you that he is all yours, then you have to trust him. Although I do agree that him becoming best friends with your ex friend (even though she talks about you all the time) was a little weird, but even the less you should still trust him. He is your boyfriend and he seems like he really loves you alot. He is all the time telling you that he loves you, and I mean since you and him have been through so much together I think that you and him really have something that alot of people want. You and him have such a relationship where you and him can go9 to each other about anything, and you and lucky enough to have that. So I think that you should just trust that he is all yours and just believe him. But another thing. About him going to him friend for advice isnt wrong. I mean he has a close friend who he can tell anything to. I dont think you should pressure him into coming to you. Just go up to him and be like "look I understand you have a friend who you can tell anything to but I just want you to know that if you ever need to talk, I am here for you." That always works. That way he is not pressured into talking to you about it, and he knows you are always there for him.
I hope I helped:)
Good Luck
-MCRxoLoVeR
P.S sorry its so long :(
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thank you soo much! that made me feel so much better. you helped me ALOT. its okay that its long.. i don't mind that :] thank you thank you thank you!
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